Kung ipakikilala ngayon isa isa
yung mga kaibigang nakakasama n’yo,
how would you describe them?
Sila ba yung kaibigang maipagmamalaki
o minsan tayo na rin mismo nahihiya
kasi lagi tayo napapahamak?
Sad to say, kung may bad habits ang ating friends,
‘Di malayong gano’n din tayo.
Sa sobrang dalas natin na magkasama,
we become each other’s mirror, ika nga.
Kaya kung kaibigan natin ay…
matakaw, matakaw din tayo
Dahil tayo ang kasa-kasama ‘pag kumakain.
Mahilig sa mga kpop,
tayo rin mae-engganyo na kasi
yun parati ang topic.
Gastador, magiging gastador din tayo.
Tsismosang kaibigan, tayo rin magiging gano’n.
Palasagot sa magulang, tamad,
palaasa, name it, lahat ‘yan pwede nating maabsorb.
Sa totoo lang, okay lang naman
maging kagaya ng mga kaibigan,
pero kapag napapasama na tayo
at nalalagay sa alanganin
dahil sa kanilang mga trip,
eh kailangan na mag-isip isip.
Para sa akin, ano pa ba ang
tunay na katangian ng KAIBIGAN?
PRANKA
Ang simple ‘di ba?
Pranka lang.
Kasi yung mga pranka,
sila yung kapag nagsalita,
tatagos talaga sa atin,
magdudulot ng sakit hindi dahil
intention nila ito kundi dahil
nasaktan tayo sa katotohanan.
“Uy, nag undertime ka na naman ah!”
“Tigilan mo na ‘yan! Mali yang pinapasok mo eh”
“Wala akong pake kung masakit, kailangan mo to marinig”
Kung baga, kung walang babatok sa atin,
patuloy lang natin gagawin ang
isang maling bagay.
Sila yung mga tinuturing natin na
magulang in disguise.
Nakabantay at naka-alalay lang.
LAGING NAKA-AALALA
Malayo, malapit, hindi sila nakalilimot.
Hindi sila nagpaparamdam kapag
may kailangan lang.
May kailangan o wala, lagi silang
tatawag, mag me-message, mangangamusta,
at laging interesado sa buhay natin.
Sorry ah pero uso kasi ngayon yung
magpapapansin sa Facebook
sabay banat na uutang pala,
hihiram ng kotse, etc.
Huwag sana tayo mag gamitan.
HINDI TAYO HAHAYAANG MAPAHAMAK
“Sige na, ‘di naman malalaman ng Mama mo ‘yan”
“Ano tara? Ako bahala magpalusot”
“Corny mo naman eh. Ikaw na lang ‘di umiinom sa barkada”
Ang matinong kaibigan
hindi tayo hahayaang mapahamak sa
kahit anong paraan.
Kung may pagkakamali man silang nagagawa
hindi nila tayo idadamay o pipiliting
maging katulad nila.
Kaya tayo na may tamang pag-iisip naman,
huwag tayo papadala sa pressure.
huwag nating hayaan na madiktahan.
Dahil ‘pag naging marupok tayo,
mapapasama lang tayo.
“Di bale ng kaunti ang kaibigan basta totoo at hindi tayo ipapahamak kailanman.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Sinong group of friends mo ngayon?
- Mabuting impluwensiya ba sila o napapahamak ka na?
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