I was once asked, “Chinkee, paano ba maging positive?”
Alam niyo ba na ang mga taong nakapaligid sa atin ay nakakaapekto sa buhay natin?
Who are these people around you?
What kind of influence do they have?
Are these people bringing positive influences or negative influences?
Now, do you believe that it is very important for us to be surrounded with positive people? Well, ‘di naman talaga natin maiiwasang mapaligiran ng mga taong nega. However, we can always choose who can influence us.
How? Here are some of my practical tips:
BE FRIENDLY, BUT ALSO BE CHOOSY.
Maging palakaibigan tayo, pero piliin natin ang mga taong mapagkakatiwalaan.
Ito ‘yung mga kaibigan na magiging close talaga sa atin. Ito ‘yung mga kaibigan na hahayaan natin maging accountable for us. Kaya, dapat talaga na piliin natin silang mabuti.
DON’T BE EASILY INFLUENCED.
Ito’y lalo na kung alam mong ikaw ‘yung klase ng tao na madaling ma-impluwensyahan. Pwede mo naman silang hawaan ng positivity kung kaya mo, pero kung sa tingin mo ay ikaw ang matatangay nila, then don’t.
BE WISE.
God gave us free will. Ibig sabihin, we can make choices. Malaya tayong isipin at gawin ang lahat ng gusto natin. Pero, binigyan rin Niya tayo ng talino para makapag-decide tayo ng tama.
For sure, marami tayong negative influences na nae-encounter araw-araw. Salain natin ang mga influences na ito at piliin lang natin ang mga influences na talagang may pakinabang sa buhay natin.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Anong klase ng mga impluwensya ang nakapaligid sa iyo?
What kind of influence do you have to others?
Are you struggling when it comes to choosing who influences you?
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