BISTADO NA NAGSISINUNGALING PA

Naranasan n’yo na ba yung
nahuli mo na pero nagsisinungaling pa rin?
Kitang kita naman na ang ebidensya,
hindi na nga kailangan idaan sa husgado
sa sobrang obvious, pero ayaw pa rin umamin?

“Ha? Hindi ako yun”
“Huwag mo akong pinagbibintangan ah!”
“Ah, eh… baka ibang tao yung sinasabi mo”
“Hindi ko magagawa sa iyo yun noh”

May kasabihan nga tayo na
masama raw magbintang ng kapwa,
pero paano nga kung alam na natin ang totoo eh ayaw pa rin umamin?
Kung minsan, nagagalit pa!

Kaya lumalala at nagiging ugat ng away at hindi pagkakaintindihan plus
lalo pa lumalaki ang issue
dahil sa kanilang pagtatago.

Bakit nga ba
kahit anong yugyog ayaw nila umamin?

AYAW LUMAKI ANG ISSUE bistado

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Halimbawa nahuli si boyfriend na may katext,
mas madali i-deny at magsabi ng “HINDI TOTOO YUN”
At mag galit-galitan kaysa,

Step 1. Magso-sorry pa
Step 2. Mauungkat yung ibang away
Step 3. Magsisigawan at magtatalo

…hanggang sa lumaki at humaba
na ang issue.

Ganon din sa ibang senaryo.

Ayaw na lang natin umamin
kasi we feel na tatagal lang
kung pwede naman tapusin kaagad.

Pinipili natin kung saan tayo
MAS kumportable at
hindi naman masyado mabigat.

TAKOT SA MAGIGING REAKSYON bistado

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“Baka kasi magalit siya”
“Nako sisigawan lang ako nun”
“Ayoko nga, baka hindi na ako kausapin”

Sa sobrang takot natin sa mangyayari
o sa sobrang advance natin mag-isip,
mas pinipili nating itago na lang.

Kaso nga lang,
Wala namang sikretong hindi nabubunyag.
Na de-delay lang ang ating sikreto
pero sisingaw at sisingaw ito
kaya may tendency na mangyari
ang number 1 point ko: Ang lumaki ang issue.

Mas mahirap. Mas masaklap. Mas masakit.

Kaya pinaka maganda diyan…

UMAMIN NA LANG BISTADO

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…No matter how small or big the issue is.

Wala namang perpekto, lahat naman
tayo ay nagkakamali at nakagagawa
ng mga bagay na hindi natin sinasadya.

If we are really sincere
and we really love the person,
we will give the truth that they deserve.

Afterwards, kapag na-explain
naman na ang lahat,
bawi na lang tayo at gumawa ng paraan para hindi na maulit ito.

“Umamin na lang kapag may nagawang mali dahil madali man magtago ng kasalanan
at sikreto pero masmalala at masakit kapag sumingaw na ito.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• Sino yung taong nagsinungaling sa ‘yo noon?
• Nahuli mo ba o siya ang umamin?
• Paano mo ito hinarap?

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